Smacksy Sunday Links

I'm doing Samhain just a couple of days late.

The acceptable face of need.

Find help.

How to find beauty when hope is hard to locate.

Girl, you need a hobby.

The internet archive. Big fan. 

Re-setting after the time change.

A list of things to quit. 

Ann Patchett announces her new novel.

A pretty flat.

Polarbear livestreams.

And a panda eating a pumpkin.

Sunday Links

Smacksy Sunday Links

Becoming a word magpie.

The types of rest you might be missing.

This is your body on no sleep.

Get out of the house.

The Birthday Paradox.

Classic simple things.

Birdwatching is having a moment.

I, a French jewel thief, refuse to rob the Louvre before mid-morning.

Eating apples.

A poem.

Hozier's favorite books.

Recipes from gravestones.

These waterfalls.

And this dog's adoption party.

Sunday Links

Smacksy Sunday Links

 They're small but mighty.

That thing you've always wanted to do.

Susan Orlean about creativity.

I've been lied to about retirement.

20 ways to enjoy winter.

Farewell D'Angelo.

The surprising power of Diane Keaton's emotional transparency.

Diane Keaton's singular style.

And she made collage.

How to have an analog fall.

Hell hath no fury like a coffee drinker in 2025.

Where writers write.

The hidden personality clues in every Only Murders in the Building apartment.

Things no one tells you about decluttering.

These photos are real.

The art of grid journaling.

Simplify your life immediately.

And this wildlife crossing over a highway in Utah. Thanks to my pal Nancy Davis Kho for sharing the video.

Happy Sunday,

Smacksy Sunday Links

Awkward situations.

The empty nest event horizon.

What you can do.

Reading Rainbow is back and with the perfect host.

Nothing Much Happens.

Fascinating bookshelf lights.

The cutter, the sewer, and the grommet queen.

Should I read this book?

These bookmark selections.

And this cockatoo and her friend.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

Farewell Jane.

Five more things I want to tell my white friends.

Rituals that carry us through the dark.

Who decides what goes on bookstore shelves.

The Longevity Pantry.

The 90/90 Decluttering Rule.

Funny 'cause it's true Wendi Aarons in the New Yorker.

Bisa Butler's gorgeous quilt art.

And baby owls.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

Daily routines of creatives.

On "the smell" from my dear and funny friend Molly Campbell.

These gorgeous poems.

This little Cornwall cottage.

New fall books.

And cook books.

All of these autumn appetizers.

And how bumblebees nap.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Links

The case for seasonal reading.

Melisa on compliments.

How to befriend a house.

The one hour studio.

Samin Nosrat's forever ingredients.

TV shows to watch after The Summer I Turned Pretty.

A fall reading list.

The World is Too Much With Us.

Her Paris apartment.

David Lynch's compound is for sale.

And under the ocean.

Have a wonderful week.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

The most mysterious cells in our bodies don't belong to us.

The Rory Gilmore reading challenge.

The Anthropic settlement.

National Book Awards long list.

Great style vs the perfect wardrobe.

Zillow is just gossip with a floor plan.

This 600 year-old cottage in Berkshire.

Bound for glory.

And they travel around Baja rescuing street dogs.

Sunday Links

Smacksy Sunday Links

Channeling back to school vibes.

She reinvented her life.

Back to school fashion circa 1939.

A janitor's view of La Sorbonne.

Movies to stream this fall.

Author Jedidiah Jenkins.

The coziest movie homes.

And baby seahorses.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

What I told my Sunday school students about death.

The truth about someday. 

This online book club vacationed together, reading.

Helen Mirren.

Get comfortable with yourself.

Baseball organists keep bringing the heat.

Art on the Ave.

And the World Dog Surfing Championships.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

Who are you in a parallel universe?

Annual back-to-school PSA.

What nearly dying taught me about living.

The case for low-key celebrations.

Two important questions to ask yourself each day.

This is good pasta thing.

Before summer is over.

Minimalist shopping.

And a kitten in a sock sweater.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

Summer camp grandmas. 

If I were 50 again, here's exactly what I'd do differently.

Venus.

Simple ways to spark your creativity.

Build the habit of showing up.

Always Amy Turn Sharp.

Removing labels from glass jars.

Visible Mending 101.

And baby hummingbirds.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

One less summer.

Take back control of the invisible forces that shape your days.

Embrace summer ennui.

Unfeathering of the nest.

Maybe pick one.

The books that made the Booker Prize long list.

This about August.

Andrew Bird and L'Orchestre National de Lyon.

And howling Huskies.

Happy Week Ahead

Smacksy Sunday Links

A gilded age summer from the always funny (no pressure) Wendi Aarons. 

Preparing for launch. (Six more weeks)

Some basic mental health habits.

Simplicity.

Wake up calls.

Thrift flips.

Adrien Brody in a lovely ad.

What's in season this month.

A list of Niçoise.

And kittens and baby goats.

Sunday Links.

Smacksy Sunday Links

Photo Bob Rosenberg, Italy

Farewell Ozzy.

Walking my age.

Her secret to success.

Staying soft.

Results are merely a by-product.

La passeggiata.

99 Summer beach reads.

Ambient cafe noise.

The 5-4-3-2-1 grocery method.

Plug in your zip code to explore local trails.

Growing basil.

Greenland icebergs.

And bears in the pool.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

Powerful life lessons from things that matter.

Notes from Ms. Morrison.

The power of small actions.

You are looking at life.

In honor of Andrea Gibson.

Pen pals still exist.

Sweden's secret to wellbeing.

This muse.

This salad.

And Monarch butterflies.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

This is a heartbreaking account of the Texas flood. If you're up for it, he paints a vivid picture. Where the river took us. 

Stop counting sheep.

When you stop explaining yourself.

Embrace deep casual hosting.

Laurie Anderson and Lou Reed's rules for living.

Peace doesn't shout.

How not to get stopped by discouragement.

Some actions to supplement protesting and voting.

Why old books smell so good.

101 meals for summer.

The affogato is always my favorite.

And a hedgehog running to dinner.

Sunday Links

Smacksy Sunday Links

Texas Hill Country flooding - how to give and receive help.

Curation is the new IQ test.

The key to longevity is boring.

This music will change your day.

City guides.

Are you kidding me right now with this house?

Getting rid of sentimental clutter.

All of these desserts.

And more bears and bears.

Happy Sunday

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

Baseball Ted

Your non-negotiables.

Counter intelligence.

He traveled to every country in the world without flying.

I was a guest on the wonderful It's Pronounced Memwah podcast.

I love her.

Pack like a pro.

Mostly painless.

And this baby bun.

Sunday Links. 

Smacksy Sunday Links

 Humans need solitude.

The Spoon Theory.

Things to do while waiting.

That one sentence.

This cottage in Surrey.

And I especially love the bears.

Happy Sunday

A Graduation Letter

 

06-04-2025

Bob, I've written a list of things I think are important to keep in mind as you go forward.

Spend less than you earn.

Kindness.

Eat lots of plants. A burrito is not really a plant.

Save 20% of what you earn in an index fund or ETF, and keep an emergency fund equal to six months income in a high interest savings account and also max out your retirement accounts every year.

When in doubt, lead with love.

Fight fair.

Read more books.

Always take a breath and consider the consequences.

Hold on to a positive outlook, hold it close.

Know how to write a check.

Learn something new - often.

Vote.

Stay away from debt. Own it - don't owe it. 

Your gift is what comes easy to you that is hard for most.

Follow your creative heart. Your art is important. 

Complain less, be grateful for more.

Keep a list of your goals. Update it regularly.

Don't take directions from the lost. Seek out mentors.

Take time away from your phone. 

Celebrate everything, even and especially the small things.

Comparisons are the real devil's workshop.

Don't waste time longing for the future - enjoy the life you have right now. Like, this very moment.

Less stuff = more freedom. In your twenties, if you can fit all of your belongings in a compact car, that's a plus.

Failure is just your first attempt in learning. Mistakes are necessary. 

Have all the feelings. The heart grows in all directions.

Live with integrity.

Be gentle.

Help others.

Stand up for those who need it. You'll know.

Use a budget - written down. Don't ballpark it. 

Sensitivity is a strength. 

Accepting help? Also a strength.

Believe in yourself. (Know that we believe in yourself.)

Take care of your body physically and emotionally and spiritually. 

Feelings are not facts. 

Don't worry about things out of your control.

Go for a walk.

I'm grateful to you for teaching me about deep joy, unconditional love, the infield fly rule, and Emperor Palpatine the phantom menace ruler of the galaxy who manipulated the system of the Star Wars Galactic Republic,.

We are so proud of you and we will always welcome you home.

Love, Mom

Smacksy Sunday Links

Building a meaningful life.

Sly Stone.

Brian Wilson.

Barbara Kingsolver and her garden.

Declutter your kitchen.

The Turkish garbage collector public library.

And this guy and his audiences.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

Your weirdness is a virtue.

Plan out a summer semester.

Action for Happiness.

Create a more flexible mind.

Love this idea.

Grief travel.

The statue keepers.

The milky way.

And a baby seal.

Happy Sunday.

High School Graduation

 

Bob, I've written a list of things I think are important to keep in mind as you go forward.

Spend less than you earn.

Kindness.

Eat lots of plants. A burrito is not really a plant.

Save 20% of what you earn in an index fund or ETF, and keep an emergency fund equal to six months income in a high interest savings account and also max out your retirement accounts every year.

When in doubt, lead with love.

Fight fair.

Read more books.

Always take a breath and consider the consequences.

Hold on to a positive outlook, hold it close.

Know how to write a check.

Learn something new - often.

Vote.

Stay away from debt. Own it - don't owe it. 

Your gift is what comes easy to you that is hard for most.

Follow your creative heart. Your art is important. 

Complain less, be grateful for more.

Keep a list of your goals. Update it regularly.

Don't take directions from the lost. Seek out mentors.

Take time away from your phone. 

Celebrate everything, even and especially the small things.

Comparisons are the real devil's workshop.

Don't waste time longing for the future - enjoy the life you have right now. Like, this very moment.

Less stuff = more freedom. In your twenties, if you can fit all of your belongings in a compact car, that's a plus.

Failure is just your first attempt in learning. Mistakes are necessary. 

Have all the feelings. The heart grows in all directions.

Live with integrity.

Be gentle.

Help others.

Stand up for those who need it. You'll know.

Use a budget - written down. Don't ballpark it. 

Sensitivity is a strength. 

Accepting help? Also a strength.

Believe in yourself. (Know that we believe in yourself.)

Take care of your body physically and emotionally and spiritually. 

Feelings are not facts. 

Don't worry about things out of your control.

Go for a walk.

I'm grateful to you for teaching me about deep joy, unconditional love, the infield fly rule, and Emperor Palpatine the phantom menace ruler of the galaxy who manipulated the system of the Star Wars Galactic Republic,.

We are so proud of you and we will always welcome you home.

Smacksy Sunday Links

I am trying to tell you something about ghosts.

I think I have nine out of ten of these things stored in my garage.

How the most remote community in America gets its mail.

I'm not doing the best I can.

About greed.

Collage art.

And some sheep.

Happy Sunday. 

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

The contribution journal.

Remove what's holding you back.

How to learn a new skill.

Money resources if you are stressed about finances.

This 1930s dance school in Paris.

What did Hubble see on your birthday?

A practical guide to not eating meat.

And Petunia the baby beaver.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

Do you have a third place?

Feeling happier.

Invest in the right order.

Forcing yourself to do everything.

What if Gen-Xers are actually the cool ones?

Start something new.

Movies for a nostalgic European summer.

3 Notebooks.

The 5-4-3-2-1 Packing Method.

And baby javelinas.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

How to use a joy list.

Thoughts on the extended mind.

What Thoreau can teach us about living well.

The 9 Rules of Longevity.

Side quests.

What to stream in May.

This house.

Get lost in these gardens.

These paintings.

And this desert rain frog.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

She asked for feedback on her prom dress.

The pursuit of contentment.

Revitalization of the sacred.

Habits that will make your life happier and lighter.

Be the wave.

99 Books for building your own spirituality.

Quiet your mind. 

Benefits of creativity.

Powerful questions to transform your spending habits forever.

Prioritize yourself.

Popular books of 2025 so far.

Plant nannies.

And a bearded dragon tries on costumes.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

I don't need my life to be remarkable. (From NYT via Scott Moe's wonderful Second Shift newsletter)

When your cup is empty.

How to live in the present moment.

Rituals for Beltane.

Rules for weeknight dinner happiness.

And Valerie the Dachsund. 

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

The soul of social life.

Bill Murray says he's not the man he used to be.

The lovely Grandfluencers. 

Therapist tricks to stay calm when things are uncertain.

Things to do at night instead of Netflix.

Fall asleep in two minutes.

This poem.

This artist.

This couple.

A Hampshire cottage garden.

Traditional designs of Ukrainian egg decorating.

And these lambs.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

The stories our Amazon carts tell.

To make someone happy, ask for help.

Low energy habits that improved my mental health.

99 Way to opt out of consumerism. 

Meaningful ways to live simply.

Fall back in love with reading.

Compelling reasons for doing nothing.

This Swedish summer house.

And this duck watch.

Happy Sunday.

Smacksy Sunday Links

 

Photo of Teddy, Adam Wilson

What happens to your brain when you retire.

Being a good friend even when you're busy.

Stoop Coffee.

Generative rage.

Ways to focus your attention.

How to curb impulse shopping.

Revisiting a podcast, Americans in Paris.

Small things neurologists wish you would do for your brain.

LA Public Library review cards.

This girl.

You can stay at this Frank Lloyd Wright home.

Purse books.

Plants that will attract hummingbirds.

Smart travel snacks.

And baby Corgis.

Happy Sunday.