Friday, August 21, 2015

Priority Mail


"Hey, Bob! How was school?"

"Are my soccer sticker packs here?"

"So, school was okay?"

"They're here! They're here!"

"Do you think you're going to like your new teacher?"

"Oh, man! Look how many there are!"

"How about your hike with the guys? Was that fun?"

"Look how cool these are! Look!"

"Did you eat your whole lunch?"

"The second pack has a Messi sticker! Oh my goodness!"

"Are you hungry? Bob?"

"Oh, hi Mom."














Thursday, August 20, 2015

Waiting


We are just waiting for someone to come home from the first day of school.




Tuesday, August 18, 2015

The Back-to-School Countdown


"Felix? Are you excited for school to start?"

"I'm sort of happy and sort of sad. Summer's over but we get to see all of our friends again."

"Yeah, but I'm kind of scared about times tables and everything."

"Yeah."

"Yeah."

"But Bob, we still have one very important thing to do before school starts."

"Yep."

"Epic water balloon fight. We've got a hundred and three balloons ready so far, I counted."







Monday, August 17, 2015

Hey, Mom? Did You Know...


I said good morning to Bob and we did the traditional wake up hug. He then opened with this about his favorite PS4 soccer video game:

"On FIFA, if you buy coins and it just comes with one account you have to transfer the coins by selling the player but it's really hard to do that because there were no price ranges - it was easier to do that - transfer coins between accounts and also you could also sell a bronze player for 15 million and then the 15 million coins would get transferred to your other account."

Hearing the details of his soccer video game makes my eyes glaze over almost instantly. I remember something I read about how if you want your kids to share the "important" things with you, listen to the "unimportant" details as well because all of these seemingly mundane details are important to them. In the future, if I want to hear about the bigger-to-me topics like girlfriends or boyfriends, or moral questions, or even what he does with his time away from me, listening now is the way to build that.

So, come at me with your questions about FIFA trading systems and player ratings. I know about them. I've been listening.



Saturday, August 15, 2015